Acknowledgments ixIntroduction xiii
1.Light and Shadow 1 2. Eastern Ideals 10 3. The Joys and Perils of Individuality 19 4. Mirrors and Reflections 32 5. Spirituality: Local and Express 41 6. Psychotherapy in the Context of Ongoing Buddhist Practice 52 7. Ego, Ego on the Wall: What Is Ego After All? 64 8. Anger: Abandon It or Express It? 91 9. A Middle Path on Anger 113 10. Embodied Love 127 11. Attachment East and West 151 12. Traditional Approaches to Nonattachment 163 13. Making Nonattachment Real 174 14. Presence and Absence in Life and Practice 184 15. Practice, Performance, and Finding Our Voices 199 Epilogue: Life as Pilgrimage 211
Notes 213Index 243