In this intimate and funny collection of essays on the sometimes confusing, sometimes poignant, sometimes hilarious condition of being a woman over sixty, Susan Moon keeps her sense of humor and she keeps her reader fully engaged. Among the pieces she has included here are an essay on the gratitude she feels for her weakening bones, observations on finding herself both an orphan and a matriarch following the death of her mother, musings on her tendency to regret the past, thoughts on how not to be afraid of loneliness, appreciation for the inner tomboy, and celebratory advice on how to regard "senior moments" as opportunities to be in the here and now.
This Is Getting Old: Zen Thoughts on Aging with Humor and Dignity, Susan Moon, Shambhala Publications, Paperback, 175 pages, $19.95
Susan Moon is a writer and longtime Zen Buddhist who teaches popular writing workshops. She is the author of the cult classic: The life and Letters of Tofu Rashi, and the editor of Not Turning Away and co-editor with Lenore Friedman of Being Bodies. She is the former editor of Turning Wheel: The Journal of Socially Engaged Buddhism. She lives in Berkeley, California.
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Contents: this is getting old: Zen Thoughts on Aging with Humor and Dignity |
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Introduction |
ix |
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PART ONE Cracks in the Mind and Body |
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Where Did I Put My Begging Bowl |
3 |
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Stain on the Sky |
10 |
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Leaving the Lotus Position |
21 |
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The Breathing Tube |
26 |
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Old Bones |
40 |
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All Fall Down |
49 |
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Senior Moment, Wonderful Moment |
55 |
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PART TWO Changing Relationships |
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In the Shade of My Own Tree |
61 |
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Exchanging Self and Other |
70 |
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House of Commons |
79 |
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Getting Good at Staying Still |
85 |
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Grandmother Mind |
93 |
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What If I Never Have Sex Again? |
99 |
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Becoming Invisible |
103 |
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The Tomboy Returns |
108 |
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PART THREE In the Realm of the Spirit |
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Tea with God |
119 |
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I Wasn't My Self |
122 |
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You Can't Take It with You |
133 |
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The Secret Place |
138 |
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Talking to My Dead Mother |
144 |
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For the Time Being |
153 |
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Alone with Everyone |
160 |
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This Vast Life |
168 |
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Acknowledgments |
173 |
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Credits and Permissions |
175 |
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